Dear Reader, One of my clients came to me feeling frustrated, confused, and—if she was being honest—a little resentful. She and her partner had been lending money to family for years. Thousands of dollars. And almost none of it was coming back. She told me, “I don’t think they’re going to pay us back… but I don’t know how to stop.” And that’s where most people stay stuck. Because underneath that pattern isn’t just money—it’s identity. The desire to help. The fear of being “the bad one.” The...