Why Spending on Yourself Isn’t Selfish


Dear Reader, A client recently shared: “I’m struggling with the idea of spending over $2,000 on myself.” If you’ve ever felt that kind of tension in your body when it’s time to spend money on you, you’re not alone. Especially if you’re a first-gen wealth builder, you were likely raised to believe that money is for surviving—not thriving. That it should go toward family, bills, emergencies—not coaching, therapy, rest, or joy. And when that belief lives in your nervous system, investing in your...